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Us, emotions and the oil spill.

 

I haven’t been a regression therapist for so long but I’ve been a mother long enough to know that bad emotion can’t be beaten by other bad emotion.

 

 Good therapeutic results depend on the degree of understanding and forgiveness that our client is willing to engage in. In the sessions we lead the client “by hand” to get to this point on their own pace and will. The sessions go: He’s done something terrible to me. He had his reasons and I understand them now. Based on my deep understanding I feel for this bastard. Say sorry than, you monster! Time for an extra help. Ok let’s shake hands now. The client is better, relationships improve all setting changes.

 

I look at kids the way they pick up emotions and thoughts of the environment they live, blending in the good and bad guy patterns. And yet there still seem to be  a lot more will to feel for the bad guy who bruised me. His dad is a drunk and mum is gone. Mum can we do something for him? Kids know.

 

 Trying to scare the fear to go away- doesn’t work. Being furious at greed doesn’t help. Being upset at an upset child doesn’t make a difference. Catching up the genocide murderer and hang him doesn’t make the world a better place. All is just generating more of the same. Blame on blame, arguments against arguments, You can see it, we are driving ourselves mad. The world is not a better place despite of our well guarded pride and our conditions to others.

 

 

 

The regression therapy with the “bad guy responsible” would be like this:

Us: You murdered wildlife! I hate you!

BGR: I know, I didn’t mean to kill the pelicans.

Us: So why did you do that?

BGR: I didn’t it just happened.

Us: So you mean you don’t feel responsible?

BGR: Absolutely not. I a) was just doing what I was told

                                      b) just wanted to give my children a good life

                                      c) needed more money to pay my employees

                                      d) was not sure of what I was doing, being under all this stress

                                     e) It could happen to anybody else

Us: I’m so angry at you!

Therapist: ok BGR what is your feeling about what needs to be done now?

BGR: I want to say sorry to the pelicans and dolphins I really didn’t mean to hurt them.

Therapist: Pelicans and dolphins is there anything you’d like to say?

Pelicans and dolphins: Yeah, we know, you’re sometimes really stupid people, you know, you just thoughtlessly follow emotions that lead to disasters. You do it every day. Never stop to look around, further than yourself.

Therapist: Thank you pelicans and dolphins. Is there anything you’d like to say to Us?

Pelicans and dolphins: Obviously. It had to be us to show that you can also feel compassion.

Us: Compassion? What’s that?

Therapist: Can you explain it please so we can better understand.

Pelicans and dolphins: You go, you drill, you want to give your kids what you call a better life-in plastic, you want more plastic, more and more. Your greed is unstoppable, you don’t consider, you don’t share you want more and more. Your kids are fed, educated, you drive your cars, use plastic every day. You long forgot what you are doing, even why you have these kids. Your heart is forgotten under the layers of plastic, feelings of despair. We are the picture of your hearts not even flapping in the thick oil. Yes you Us and you BGR, you are no different from each other.  Compassion is a feeling, close to love, you see. That stuff that shakes you inside, the emotion that puts tears in your eyes and makes you heart alive.

BGR: oh yes I remember it when my kids were born! Boy I was weeping like a crocodile! It was so beautiful! That was compassion?

Pelicans and dolphins: Well BGR it was more. It was love, pure love. Your heart leaps with joy and you cry. That’s love, no conditions.

Us: well yes, we… know it too. Gee but what’s the point?

Pelicans and dolphins: The point is to feel this.

Therapist: Thank you pelicans and dolphins. Us, just go now to the time when you felt this emotion…on three. One, two, and … three. And in your time tell me what’s happening.

Us: ah yes, once at Christmas. It’ s at a school performance, our kids are doing the topic on environment, singing and dancing. The little one’s hopping there on the stage so cute, dressed like a pinquin! She’s singing will all others. She’s got a bit of cold and her nose is runny and she doesn’t care, it looks so funny, and at the same time so… wow… I don’t really understand the words they are singing, but it feels like we are all together with the other parents… I don’t know how to describe it… and I’m just crying, haha!

Therapist: Just take this feeling in. Tak a deep breat in, breath it all in, deep breathing and fill yourself with this feeling as you are breathing in. Just take it all in now.  Let me know when you are completely full with it.

Us: yes

Therpist: how are you feeling now?

Us: good, lighter, haha.

Therapist: Ok let’s talk to the BGR. Is there anything you want to tell him?

Us: yeah, you know, I see now we all love our kids. I bet you go to the zoo with them.

BGR: they are all grown up now.

Us: Ok BGR listen I understand now. I also (a,b,c,d,e, as above).

BGR: Glad you got the point.

Us: But the disaster is still going on, you know…

BGR: I know. I don’t know what to do with it any more.

Therapist: Let’s ask for advice someone who might know. Pelicans and dolphins, do you have any suggestion?

Pelicans and dolphins:  Well as far as us, we are finished with you people on Earth. We’ve done our best to open up in you the sense of compassion. Together with millions of other animals we’ve been trying to do this, in different ways, by accompanying you, serving you ever since…  Somewhere in your greed for more you forgot about us. There is no more place for us with you people. In your sophisticated minds you won’t find the way to fix anything. It’s your heart, intuition but you can only hear these when stop the noise of your constant anger. And that you can do.

Therapist: Thank you pelicans and dolphins. Anybody wants to say anything?

Us: maybe … we can do this together?

Kids maintain the ability and will to make the world a better place. Feeling for others is a part of them until they grow and if we cut them from it with our conditions. They understand love on much deeper level. They exist beyond reasoning, beyond words. Their relationship with animals is one of joy, it’s natural to them. They feel that the angry kid needs a hug to calm down and don't understand why his mother is shouting at him instead. It’s just Us who forgot what to do with love. 

Reiki

What is it and What does it do?


I was first attuned to Reiki in 2001 in Prague and have been practicing intensely ever since. In 2006 I received the Master/Teacher attunement in a different school/lineage in France and became a Reiki Master. My students thus have the chance to learn from both traditions (in their own language) and to combine what feels best for them.  As for the healing session, not much language is needed.

 What is it?

The Reiki (Rei-universal, omnipotent, omnipresent, Ki- energy) healing system originated in Japan, Mikao Usui being the founder. It traveled via the U.S.A to Europe and back to Japan, where it reconnected with its original roots. There are probably hundreds of different schools teaching various techniques, several interpretations of Mikao Usui’s 5 Principles and various sets of hand positions. The variations are mostly due to the cultural differences of the societies through which the message of Reiki has passed.  What all the schools have in common is their:

-Attunements

-5 Principles of Healthy and Happy Being (more or less similar in the translations/interpretations)

-Symbols (same meanings, written signs vary according to the handwriting of different masters)

Mikao Usui’s teachings were passed on only orally. They focused on spiritual awareness and health improvement was the side effect. Western society, enamored with the material, prefers to put physical health improvement first but appreciates emotional well-being as well.

 What does it do? 

It’s all about vibrations and resonance. Others can sense our heartbeat at a distance of four meters. You know that someone in the room is sad or happy as soon as you enter. We are in a swimming pool full of vibrations that we constantly exchange. Healing energy resonates and vibrates within every organ of your body and every thought produced in your head, in order to restore your original well-being.

Our physical body is preprogrammed to heal itself. We want to feel good and be healthy and we wish the same for all those we love. Disease is often a physical manifestation of a mental and emotional disturbance within. Environment and nutrition either significantly support our self-healing capacity or hinder it.

Reiki is Unconditional Love energy that acts beyond any earthly condition. The purpose of this special energy cannot be altered by any means. It can be rejected by the receiver of his own free will, and thus make no difference. It works regardless of our age or our belief system, our prejudices or other social or personal limitations. Anybody can be attuned and give or receive healing.

Reiki is a smile that you give to anyone and anyone can give to you.

 What’s the session like? 

The simplest healing session you can experience. With your clothes on, you relax on a massage table. While I’m channeling Reiki with a light touch of my hands on your body, you just let the experience happen. Some feel tingling and warm, some get emotional for a few seconds, some feel happy and light, but everybody finds receiving Reiki extremely relaxing. It’s a very gentle healing.

As a treatment I offer four sessions within one week. 

How can I do it myself?

Your whole person, its feelings, emotions, thoughts, memories and its physical body, is harmonized with this healing energy by the process of Attunement. You can then use it for your own benefit and also help others in the same way. You can pass the healing using your hands (simple hand positions over the clothing and/or across time and space); the explicit intention to help gives it an extra boost.

  

What else? 

I suffered various health problems since I was a teenager. At the time I heard about Reiki from a friend I was on the verge of not being able to take care of my three children, as I was in and out of to bed constantly. A few weeks after the attunement all my troubles disappeared. I was giving Reiki daily to my kids, partner, my neighbors, relatives, friends and to myself. To my surprise, I was able to get back to work and enjoy my life. My mum, who was scheduled to have an arthritic hip joint operation, never had to go back to the hospital. The pain is no longer there and the mobility of her joint has returned to normal. Amongst other things I also used Reiki successfully to diminish “phantom pain” after a limb amputation.

From my perspective as a mother, I’d recommend Reiki to every mum just to help your kids with all those everyday colds, flues and coughs, bruises, toothaches, eczemas and emotional troubles.  Kids act instinctively, so you can always relay on their feedback. They love it and even their friends ask for some. It’s quality time with your kids when you can talk and share and let more love and fewer conditions come into your relationship. 

The experience of people attuned to Reiki differs from person to person. It makes a change in a human being’s self-development. For some the change is profound, some give up half way, others go on and embrace the challenge and joy of healing themselves. The soul/higher self comes forth and demands freedom to bloom into its full purpose, the thing that every one of us wonders about. By using Reiki in everyday life you may find your answers and your way back to yourself, overcome hurdles and learn your lessons and have some fun on the way. You can indeed find this happy and healthy life in harmony with the World, Earth and Universe.